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I’m a 38-year-old bi woman who has been sleeping with a married male coworker for the last eight months. We’re a…

I’m a gay guy who’s involved with a guy I met a few months before COVID-19 took off. He’s a great guy, smart, funny,…

I’m a twenty-something more-or-less lesbian in an East Coast city. I’m primarily into women, and I’m only interested…

Is it terrible to believe you can still have a truly monogamous and loving relationship with one partner after…

My wife asked me to write to you about our situation. We’ve been married for fifteen years. I am 50 years old and my…

I’m a lesbian in a long-term relationship. After much conversation with my partner we’ve decided to explore…

I have a question. I’m a gay man in a relationship and we’re both really happy since we met a year ago. We’re “open”…

I’m committed to my male partner and he’s committed to me. (I’m a woman.) But we both understand we need to flirt…

I’m a 32-year-old straight guy. My wife and I have been married for four years and together for nine. We have a…

Hey, everybody: We had our first Savage Love Livestream event last Thursday night and I had such a blast! A huge…

Here goes: I’m a 32-year-old gay male and I have trouble staying out of my head during sex. I feel like there may be…

I don’t want to become one of those people who write to you complaining about how I married someone I wasn’t…

Here’s a non-COVID question for you: I’m a queer white female in a monogamish marriage. I vote left, I abhor hatred…

It’s taken a lot to do this but here goes. I am a 38-year-old gay male. I have been dating this guy for one year and…

I’ve been with the same amazing man a dozen years. We’ve had our ups and our downs, same as any other couple, but…

I’m a 31-year-old female. Last week I suddenly started to experience an overwhelming, compulsive, and near-constant…

I was raised in a religious home and didn’t lose my virginity until the embarrassing age of 26. I was told by the…

I am a super queer presenting female who recently accepted that I have desires for men. My partner of two years is…

Your last two columns and your last two podcasts were all about the pandemic. Everything everywhere is all about the…

My husband and I got married in August of 2019 and we were together for over five years before getting married. I’m…